Though the body language women tend to display may be less obvious then that of men, there are many common signs of attraction that can be read if you know how to read body language that women in particular use to communicate feelings, desire and interest.
There are many different body language gestures that might mean a variety of different things if concentrated on alone. A smile for example might immediately be taken as a sign that things are going well, but one need only to look to the eyes to know whether or not there is a good chance the smile is genuine.
When trying to determine a level of interest the most important thing is to pay attention to even the most subtle signs and note them. Jumping to conclusions is usually a bad move, but at some point you will need to act on your assumptions. Certain gestures are almost indisputable, for instance you know she likes you if she takes an opportunity to take your hand or lean on your shoulder. A woman who is uncomfortable will almost never willingly touch her date.
Facial Expressions:
Many women follow certain social expectations when it comes to meeting new people and for this reason may act quite cordially even if they have no interest in you romantically. Learning the body language secrets that will allow you to better understand what a woman is feeling can help you to decipher between real interest and polite expectations.
Those looking for help or tips on dating may find that simple facial expressions can shed a lot of light on almost any romantic situation.
Much of the truth behind an expression is held within the eyes. Unchanging eyes often indicate that the rest of the expression is forced and not at all the true feeling of the person.
Watching for a slight lowering of the brow during a smile and even a slight narrowing of the eyes, or softening, is often a good sign that she is finding the situation to be genuinely humorous or pleasant. Certain women tend to be somewhat demure when they are attracted to a man and may lower their head slightly or hide their smile as to not be too expressive and give away their true feelings.
Widening of the eyes is an almost universal sign of surprise or an attempt to refocus. If your conversation seems to have no reason to invoke a startled response, it may indicate that she is having trouble following what you say or has become slightly bored.
Most or all of these expressions can be seen just as easily on the internet via webcam and can be quite telling. With so many people making use of the large communities for internet romance it is important to be able to read facial expressions particularly if hoping to do some flirting online or seek out meaningful relationships.
Physical Messages:
One of the most common complaints about women is that they send signals that get misread or come across as flirting body language even when they don’t mean to. This is because in general women are often more comfortable with touch and expressiveness without feeling that is necessarily tied to anything sexual.
For those looking to crack the code it is important to pay attention to two very specific things: amount of attention given to you verses others and physical signals that are clear.
Beginning with attention is an easy enough step to take as it only requires you to monitor how the woman you are interested in is interacting with others. If for example she is just as comfortable touching other as she is you then you can eliminate almost all subtle gestures from your list of signals which might indicate she interested in you. Though this doesn’t necessarily mean that she isn’t trying to flirt with you in particular, it does mean you can’t count it.
Physical gestures become a great deal more confusing because different women draw different lines when it comes to contact. Some women might not feel comfortable having their hand held until they reach a certain level with someone in a romantic situation; others may be quick to take you up on any physical intimacy.
Once again reading the signs takes focus and observation, but if read correctly can help you decide whether or not making a move will be well received or rejected.
The following signal can usually be a good sign that a woman is interested in getting to know you better:
- Repeatedly leans her body against yours
- Finds reasons to touch you, subtle or not
- Looks to see if you’re watching or looking at her whether in close proximity or from across a room
- Keeps her body angled in your direction
- Keeps drawing your attention to her lips or other parts of the body that are typically thought of as sexual
The next group of signals can tricky to read, but are commonly amongst those “mixed signals” that seem to confuse so many people when it comes to the intentions of women:
- Leans on you and many others
- Touches you and many others
- Draws your attention to her body with relatively no feeling of privacy
- Seeks to include you and others in conversation by keeping her body angled toward everyone.
- Laughs at your jokes (this really can go either way)
In order to have the best chance to read signal properly it is important to pay attention to the entire package not just maintain focus on looking for a smile or a touch. Watching facial expression, body language and paying attention the words a woman says and how she says them can help you to decipher whether or not an advance would be welcome. By ignoring any of these important observations you may risk acting prematurely or complete rejection.
In the world of dating timing is often one of the most important variables and by simply paying attention you can choose the perfect time and most effective opening to make yourself stand out and shine in her eyes.
Volume One ~ Long Distance Signals
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