Millions of people go out on first dates every day and though their expectations range from the typical to the astonishing a great many of those first time couples have one thing in common: curiosity about attraction.
Whether you're meeting your date at a candlelit supper, an afternoon game or an internet café it is likely that you will wonder about your physical compatibility within the first ten minutes of the conversation. Online interactions may provide more detailed information while face-to-face meetings may spark some immediate physical responses, but in either case some curiosities about the possible physical encounters ahead will remain.
Learning everything about physical intimacy, from how to be a great kisser to pleasing your lover in bed, is a task that most people accomplish through a variety of methods throughout the course of their lives. The question remains, however: how will you and your new romantic interest fair together? Is there a future in your dating this person or are you simply on the wrong track?
While some adult singles experience no difficulty in questioning their date about private matters, most find that more subtle tactics serve their curiosity and discretionary style a little better. Using some subtle questioning, with a few well placed perhaps not so subtle innuendos, may serve as an excellent compatibility test for your possible love life.
Using these 7 questions you may quickly discover warning signs that could prevent disaster, or perhaps reveal some promising matchmaking yet to come:
- Favorite Film/Book and Why: The point of such a question isn't so much about the type of genre that is preferred, (though that may be useful in other areas of the relationship,) but to hear it described. An enthusiastic, detailed account often indicates an attentive manner, which may prove very useful one on one.
- Choose an Activity; Sky Diving or a Walk on the Beach: This questioned can be tailored to your own experiences if you prefer, but the general idea is to determine how adventurous your date might be.
- Describe an Ideal Date: Though many people have a tendency to describe not what they believe an ideal date would be, but what they believe their date would like to hear, neither is the point of this question. Again the answer is in the details; a creative answer, however far off the mark of truth, shows that your date can be creative with their ideas and under pressure to boot! If the answer seems a bit lacking, you may have your work cut out for you, though in some cases this may not be such a bad thing.
- Choose a Representation; If You Were a Vehicle, What Type Would You Be: This question goes directly to self image and can have more tricks to it than a magician's hat. The overly confidant sports car may mean your competition will be the closest mirror; while an old beater could indicate a challenge just making it to the first kiss.
- Describe Your Ideal Job: Though this question could reveal a great deal about what life goals you may or may not have in common the exact profession isn't the key. Those who choose a career that allows for the least amount of effort are often lacking when it comes to an enthusiastic nature; those who would choose something a bit more challenging and hopefully rewarding aren't afraid to put in the necessary effort to achieve the desired effect.
- Favorite Restaurant and Why: The mind often associates food, a primal necessity, with other primal activities. While a juicy description of a favorite meal can indicate a great deal about other preferences; an enthusiastic preference for cheap and easy reveals another taste entirely.
- Music Preference: This question will often lead to a description of what specifically the music reminds the person of and this is the part to pay attention to. There are few things in society that stir the body like a music and though the answer given may not be the day-to-day preference of your date, it will often indicate what they imagine playing in the background during other activities.
The next time you find yourself wondering about how your date may measure up physically or how passionate the journey there might be, try using these subtle, yet effective peeks into the inner workings of their mind and get a glimpse of some exciting possibilities.
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