Whether you’re looking for true love or just becoming a better date it is vital that you know where your strengths and weaknesses are getting you in your romantic life. By taking this boyfriend quiz you may help reveal some things about yourself which may have been causing certain problems and even get a few tips on how to correct the situation. By improving the way you appeal to others you can greatly increase your chances for happiness and maintaining the kind of relationship you believe best fit your life.
Question 1:
While browsing through online dating profiles you narrow down your choices between two different candidates. While one responds immediately, the other seems a bit more preoccupied, but is over all more interesting to you both in looks and personality. After giving this some thought you:
- String along the one who responded for a few weeks just in case the perfect profile responds.
- Keep them both and add a few more, you’re looking for fun.
- Leave them hanging for a while until you know for sure you can’t get your first choice.
- Respond with a muted level of interest and indicate that you want to take it slow giving yourself the room to play the field.
- Send an email immediately because your ideal probably won’t like you anyway and you don’t have time to waste.
Question 2:
After saying goodbye to your newest romantic interest at a club you notice one of their friends is too drunk to drive home. The friend isn’t really your kind of person, but is close to the object of your affection. Really assessing the situation causes you to:
- Leave the friend at the club, it isn’t your problem.
- Take the friend home, not really your type, but still might be looking for some quick fun.
- Offer a ride knowing that they will decline because you are basically a stranger.
- Insist on either giving them a ride or calling a cab, you know this is the right thing to do.
- Call a cab because you don’t trust yourself not to flirt, but insist on paying because you’re not sure if they have any cash.
Question 3:
Your favorite team is playing a game that you and all of your friends have been planning for all season when your honey reminds you that this weekend is their birthday. No solid plans are in place for a celebration so when a friend calls to ask you about bringing food for the game you:
- Tell them you’ll pick up something on the way.
- Plan on waking your sweetheart the morning of with a physical present that will leave plenty of time for you to get food before the game starts.
- Tell your friend you’ll be there while secretly hoping you can juggle both commitments with as little effort as possible.
- Discuss the problem with your sweetheart and request to celebrate a day early or late because this is really important to you, promising a romantic weekend in the future to make up for it.
- Tell your friend there is no way you can attend.
Question 4:
Your partner has asked you to read a book about relationships that looks so boring you think you might have better luck reading a brick. When they ask you how the book is going a few weeks later you:
- Say you lost the book and forgot about it.
- Lie about reading it, hitting only vague key points that you gathered from the title.
- Remind them it has only been a few weeks and you’ll get around to it sometime.
- Despite not wanting to, you show your progress and how much you truly care by telling them that you did read it, though you didn’t care for it because of certain key points.
- Admit that you read it twice. Once because you were asked to and again just in case you missed something they thought might be important.
Question 5:
It is your sweetheart’s turn to clean up the kitchen, but you have both been a little under the weather over the last week. As your partner shuffles off to get to work you:
- Ask them to grab you a beer since they are already up.
- Offer to clean in exchange for a rain check on a little bedroom activity.
- Wait until the kitchen is about finished and yell that you can lend a hand.
- Insist that you can at least help; after all they would do the same for you.
- Take over the cleaning and make them a hot cup of tea, you’re sick too, but you usually do the chores so it seems right.
After answering these common situation questions determine which letter you seemed to choose most often and match it with the letter below. By focusing on which traits may be preventing you from painting the romantic picture you desire and following some basic dating advice, you stand a good chance of improving your over all experiences.
- Selfish Sam (majority answers a): Your self-preserving attitude has allowed you not to become emotionally invested in situation and people that might have hurt or brought negative influences into your life. The flip side of this is that you are perceived as being incapable of consideration and are often completely unaware of what those closest to you are feeling. To improve your relationship or date appeal you may want to make an effort to focus on the thoughts and needs of others as well as your own.
- Player Paul (majority answers b): No one likes to play the field like you do and whether your club hopping or looking to meet singles online you love variety. While this may be because you’re not ready to settle or simply because you’re not the settling type it is important that you send out the right kind of signals. Most people know a Casanova when they see one and may not be interested in investing any time. Hold back a little on your overly flirtatious nature and you may find that others you’re meeting can see there’s more to you, therefore building more interest in finding out what makes you tick.
- Flaky Frank (majority answers c): You’re casual approach to everything may make you easy going on some matters, but many perceive you as untrustworthy and undependable. When it comes to relationship and date functions some effort is required and by investing some time and energy you stand to greatly improve your chances for happiness as you are treated in kind.
- Thoughtful Theo (majority answers d): You are the king of consideration and sensitivity and will be well liked by many. Though you may need to do little in the way of self improvement your trouble may lie in those you choose to lavish your affections on. Remember that in order to create a romantic best, both members should be willing to strive for perfection.
- No Confidence Conrad (majority answers e): Despite your best intentions you feel unsatisfied underneath your eagerness to please. Many people may find you pleasant, but are also aware of how easily you are swayed. It is important to have your own thoughts and feelings and to let this be known in your relationship. Allowing your partner or a series of dates to take advantage is poor road to happiness and is often found to be unattractive. Remember, you’re important to and you have a right to all of the affection you want to bestow on others.
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