Maintaining a successful relationship isn’t easy and sometimes it can be even harder to figure out what went wrong. By taking this girlfriend quiz you may get a better idea of what type of girlfriend you are and where you might need to make some changes in how you approach your method of looking for love. One thing that is constant regardless of how many different people you plan a date with is you! Find out if you’re doing everything you can to ensure that your romantic relationship is all that you would want it to be.
Question 1:
At a nightclub an attractive single saunters up to you and delivers a few cheesy pick up lines. In response you:
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Laugh in their face and wave them away.
- Remind this predator that ice breakers like theirs are both insulting and a sure fire mark of stupidity.
- Shoot back a sexy opening line of your own and smile sensually.
- Laugh in a kind way and respond by inviting them to sit with you.
- Mock the message, but not the intention and if interested allow them to buy you a drink.
- Ignore the ridiculousness completely and act as if this person had appeared suave and debonair. You can’t afford to send the wrong signal.
Question 2:
When it comes time to pay the check at the restaurant on your first date you:
- Expect your date to pay, naturally.
- Tell your date you’re insulted that they would want to pay, what do they expect in return?
- Allow your date to pay suggesting that it might be worth their while later on /wink.
- Offer to split the check, but allow your date to pay if they insist.
- Don’t expect your date to pay, but allow this if they offer, but mention that you would like to pick up the tab for the movie afterward.
- Offer to pay when your date reveals that they forgot to bring their wallet; you’re just happy to be out.
Question 3:
After a few introductory emails and scan of an attractive profile you begin doing a little flirting online with your new romantic interest. In direct response to this they send you a naked picture of themselves a bit more prematurely than you might have expected. When you respond you:
- Ignore the email completely and move on to new prospects.
- Reply with a tirade of insults letting them you think their behavior is piggish and disgusting.
- Send one of yourself back immediately!
- Thank them for taking such an embarrassing risk, but revealing that you’re not quite ready for such interactions yet.
- Joke about appreciating the goodies while informing them that you won’t be sending your own until the relationship has progressed a bit further.
- Send several naked photos of yourself even though you don’t really feel comfortable; you are too scared not to keep them interested.
Question 4:
When it comes time to meet his friends one of them gets you alone in a corner and reveals a rather suggestive idea about what might happen if the two of you were alone. You respond by:
- Asking him to list his best qualities, maybe you could trade up.
- Slapping his face and announcing to the room that he is a backstabbing jerk.
- Subtly reveal that you might just be interested.
- Smiling and edging away from them, making sure the two of you are no longer alone. You won’t mention this to your sweetheart; it was probably a joke anyway.
- Letting them know they’re barking up the wrong tree, but allowing them to feel as though you won’t make a big deal out of it as long as they don’t bring it up again.
- Reveal that you might be very interested if not for your current attachment. You have to word this carefully, it may be a test of your loyalty, but you can’t afford to throw away prospects.
Question 5:
The first time you sleep with your new lover the experience isn’t all you might have hoped for, when they ask you how you’re feeling you:
- Brush off the question, but imply that you’re unsatisfied.
- Describe in detail how bad it was and that you’re sorry you wasted your time at all with this loser.
- Distract your lover by reminding them that they might want to hydrate for a second round.
- Focus on the good parts and remember that if your lover can gain confidence this may improve skills.
- Tell them sensitively that it might have been better, but that there’s nothing like practice to make perfect.
- Lie about your feelings, they aren’t important enough to express.
After answering these common key situation questions figure out which letter you chose most often and find out where your strengths and weakness may be causing trouble. Working on your trouble areas may help you to vastly improve your over all dating life and help you to find the right match.
- Number One Nancy (majority answers a): You always put your needs first and this has served you well in many areas of your life. If you don’t look out for number one, who else is going to right? On the other hand your self preservation may also interfere with your ability to compromise and think of others which can greatly hurt your chances for having a successful relationship. Try to work on your ability to be considerate and you may find that others warm to you more quickly.
- Hot Headed Hannah (majority answers b): When you dislike a situation you have no problem telling others how you feel and this way of life has allowed you to nip problems in the bud long before they become reoccurring. Unfortunately it may also mean that you have tendency to over react which causes fighting and tension in relationships. Remember to choose your battles and give the other person the benefit of the doubt before your begin chastising them for their actions.
- Flirtatious Farah (majority answers c): Flirting comes naturally to you and always makes a situation more fun. Life is short and you like to play and have a good time. At any party others find you exciting and sexy and you’re always looking for more of the same. While there’s no harm in having a flirtatious nature this can become a problem if you let it get out of control. Remember that driving your sweetheart crazy with jealousy may also drive them out of your life.
- Sweet Selene (majority answers d): For you being nice is always the right thing to do and others find you pleasant and agreeable. Your habits of consideration will serve you well in relationships, but you must remember that sometimes being honest wins out over being polite. In order to maintain a good balance always keep in mind that you can be truthful while still being respectful and in doing so show your partner that you are willing to consider their feelings while working on anything that comes your way.
- Well Balanced Betty (majority answers e): Whether the situation calls for reserve or bold action you know how to cope. Your emotions do not override your good sense and in this you will have a great ally in many areas of life. Others find you level headed and sensible; polite and confident. It is important to remember, however, that sometimes love is about expressing emotion and giving in to whims. Let loose once in a while and let your heart guide you and you may find that you are able to find romance right under your nose.
- Doormat Deloris (majority answers f): You always put the needs of other before your own and do not like to cause trouble. Other may find you easy to be around because of your good natured appearance, but often you feel like your own wants go unsatisfied. Maintaining a healthy relationship calls for both members to be happy and in order to feel truly in love you may need to learn how to incorporate your own feelings into some form of expression. Remember that you’re important too and deserve the best, don’t allow your low self esteem to keep you down.
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