Unlike some of the emotional consequences of having sex, the possible physical results of this action can be dangerous, even deadly. That is not to say that sex itself is a life-threatening act, but to neglect the very real responsibilities that are part of the act, could be.
Most women have a fair understanding of what safe-sex practices are best for protecting them from harmful diseases. In turn many women are familiar with which products will decrease their chances of getting pregnant. While the only completely safe method for either of these issues is not to engage in sexual activity, the contraceptives of today's society allow many women to enjoy healthy sexual experiences.
The problem with having such excellent protection is that many women tend to forget that there are still consequences when it comes to having sex. Though the use of a condom may help to prevent the spreading of certain diseases, it is not a failsafe method and is not a substitute for making sure both partners get tested prior to any sexual activity. These precautions get neglected and in the heat of the moment a life changing mistake could be made. Though taking these extra precautions may not be the easiest thing to do, especially for a woman who enjoys a fair amount of sexual activity with different partners, they are important and possibly life saving.
Referring back to the emotional problems that can be triggered (volume I,) physical problems may develop as a result of sexual experiences. Some women so deeply associate love and lust that once they introduce sex into their present relationship they can develop unhealthy obsessive habits. This kind of irrational behavior can cause everything from serious eating disorders to suicidal thoughts.
In some cases, an extreme form of attachment need not even apply for women to risk her health in the name of attracting her man. Many women starve themselves, or become bulimic all so that when the clothes come off they feel desirable. While this type of behavior may not be exclusively linked to sex, the desire to be physically appealing is part of the package.
Avoiding these types of behavior in a relationship need not include the banishment of any physical intimacy; simply monitoring any behavioral changes you see in yourself that might be unhealthy and putting an end to them can help you to avoid these emotional-to-physical issues.
One of the largest and perhaps most controversial issues related to sex is pregnancy. For years we have seen battles continue over what forms of birth control are accepted by society, religion and even medical expert. Whether or not you agree with any or all of the methods of preventing pregnancy the issue of whether or not you feel prepared to be a mother, applies to all women considering having sex.
Before you allow passion to sweep you off of your feet, it is important to take the time to decide how you feel about pregnancy issues:
- Have you taken the appropriate precautions?
- Do you know how you feel and are you knowledgeable about different birth control methods?
- Have you discussed these issues with your partner?
- Is it physically dangerous for you to become pregnant?
- Have you considered what it would be like to be a mother?
These are but a few of the questions many women should consider before introducing sex into their relationship. Naturally, these are not often the thoughts of a person who has only met their partner recently and it may be difficult to inquire about their feelings on the subject, however, that's no reason for you to not know yours.
Considering many of these risks one might wonder why any woman would rush into a sexual experience without taking the necessary precautions. The answer is simple: many women feel the same kinds of desires as men do! While men are primarily stimulated by what they see, women are even more likely to become aroused as their stimulation can be found in multiple senses. Certain sounds and scents can lead a woman's thoughts into a more sexual aware state; even something as seemingly harmless as flirting online can peek a woman's sexual interest without visual or audio stimulation. Understanding that certain emotions greatly alter the way in which a woman can be aroused may help to explain why women are often more finicky about when they want to have sex, but it may also help to explain why so many women forget common sense when passion is in the air.
Whether you choose to have sex on the first date, or wait until a formal union can be made between you and your partner it is important to treat your body with the respect that it deserves by simply considering the consequences and making any appropriate preparation. If you have questions or concerns in these matters contact your doctor or health clinic which may be able provide you with the answers you need to have a happy, health sex life.
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